Over the years,
I have come across some profound quotations from some very wise folks. They
have often acted as rudders as I work through life’s complex issues. These 7
quotes, in my opinion serve as great guideposts as we work through life and
careers.
1.
“My goal
in life is to unite my avocation with my vocation,
As my two eyes make one in sight.” Robert Frost, Two Tramps in Mudtime.
As my two eyes make one in sight.” Robert Frost, Two Tramps in Mudtime.
Robert Frost kindled in me an appreciation for poetry –
his poems were the first poems I read that were not required for a course.
These two lines – the need to fuse what you love with what you do for a
living can be a powerful path to satisfaction.
2.
“If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit.
There's no point in being a damn fool about it.” W. C. Fields.
I was very inspired by the
original tale from Robert Bruce and the Spider. But as I grew older, this
variation from WC Fields made so much more sense…For me, it’s always been a
balance between persistence and realism. The best outcomes are not easily
achieved and failure should not deter us. Persistence clearly matters. But sometimes
we may be trying too hard at the wrong thing. In those instances, backing off
and going a different direction may yield better outcomes.
3. “An eye for an
eye only ends up making the whole world blind.” Mahatma
Gandhi
These wise
words from Gandhi have been the hardest to put into practice. It is a fact that
at work and in life people often hurt us – whether through action, inaction,
words or snubs. And the desire to retaliate is high. But in practice, avoiding
retaliation has always served me better
- It has become so much easier as I grew older as I realized how easily
I unintentionally hurt others. And so I don’t retaliate in the hope that others
won’t retaliate for my unintentional missteps.
4. Alice: “Would you tell me please which way I
ought to go from here”
Cheshire Cat: “That
depends a good deal on where you want to get to.”
Alice: “I don’t
much care where…”
Cheshire Cat: “Then
it doesn’t matter which way you go.”
Alice: “As long
as I get somewhere…”
Cheshire Cat: “Oh,
you’re sure to do that if only you walk long enough.”
From Alice in Wonderland
So often
in life, I find myself doing things for random reasons – everyone does it, it
seemed the right thing to do, or its seems cool…Staying busy could make me feel
that I was getting somewhere. I try (sometimes unsuccessfully) to figure out
what I need to do. And then I can decide whether a specific action will get me
there.
Of course,
the last two lines are great when one does not know where to go… just trying
something is better than being paralyzed into inaction. And often times the act
of doing things helps understand where we want to go.
5. “Easy is not the goal.” Ed Catmull
in Creativity Inc.
Compared
to most of the other quotations in this list, I learnt this one relatively
late. Ed Catmull, the co-founder of Pixar, wrote this in the book: “Creativity
Inc.”. He was talking about the care they take while making Pixar movies. In
one of the book’s chapters he described a choice they made while making Monsters
Inc. While making the scenes based on Sully and Mike’s room they had to make a
CD Rack…with a bunch of compact disks stored in a tower. They spent hours
making sure that each CD in the rack had a title and artwork…something that no
one in the audience would notice, and for a scent that lasted no more than 20
seconds. While agreeing this may have been excessive, Catmull made a point that
I had come to realize a few years ago…in the things that matter, easy is not
the goal. As we perform tasks and activities, it always seems expedient to take
an easy way out on some key aspects of the task…don’t worry about the cover
page of a report, don’t worry about proper formatting, and so on. But with every
such decision we make our work and our activity a little more ordinary – till it
loses all distinctiveness. It is a stepping-stone to mediocrity.
6. “The whole problem with the world is that
fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so
full of doubts.” Bertrand
Russell, British Mathematician and Philosopher.
This statement from the British mathematician/philosopher
Bertrand Russel is one of my favorites. Something that I always try to talk
about in a decision-making or a leadership class. Russell was commenting on the
fact that any complex situation has many sides to it. Wise people will see
those different sides and the pros and cons of various solutions. They will
find it harder to be sure that any course of action is the right one. Enter
someone who is less wise, who can’t see all sides to the problem. This person
bangs the table and says…of course this action is the right one…and the
uncertain wise folks are likely to agree with him or her….
7.
Education is not the filling of a pail but the lighting
of a fire Albert
Einstein
This quote from Einstein is something I came across when transitioning
to an academic career. It is tempting to focus exclusively on filling the
student’s pail with canned information. But Einstein’ vision was powerful – Teachers
need to transform students to becoming continuous learners – to always seek the
knowledge they need to solve ever-evolving problems.